Signs of Internet Addiction

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Many people laugh when they hear people talk about “internet addiction” because they don’t think it’s a serious condition. However, it is a real condition just like alcoholism, sex addictions and compulsive gambling are. And, just like all addictions, internet addiction starts out slowly and many of those that suffer from it don’t even know when they became addicted to the internet. Below are a few signs that will help you determine if you or someone you know suffers from internet addiction.

Interference with Work: One of the most common signs that one is on the internet too much is if their internet surfing interferes with work. This isn’t necessarily limited to just your “job” but also the work you do around the house, such as keeping the house clean, loading the dishwasher, preparing dinner and staying on top of the laundry. If you notice that things aren’t getting done around the house because you’re online instead, then it is likely that you may be an internet addict.

Less Time with Friends and Family: Another problem internet addicts suffer from is isolation. Because they are spending so much time online, they don’t feel the need to meet their friends or family for lunch or to catch a movie any more. Instead, they prefer to stay at home and surf the net.

Defensive Behavior: One of the more subtle signs of internet addiction is an increase in defensive behavior. If you or someone you know, displays defensive behaviors when questioned about the time spent online, then they may be developing, or already have, an internet addiction. Crankiness is also a good sign to go by too.

Time Management Problems: Many people that have developed an internet addiction can spend hours on the internet without realizing it. Once they get online, they simply lose all track of time. Obviously, this is something that can easily happen to anyone. However, it is a problem if it happens to you on a frequent basis.

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How to Break Internet Addiction

There are many people out there who have come to realize that they have somehow, over time, became addicted to the internet. Perhaps, you are one of these people. While the first step of recognizing the problem exists has been met, many people don’t know what to do after that. Well, just like any addiction, there are steps that you can take to help correct your internet addiction. The steps below will help you break your internet addiction. However, if you find you can’t do it on your own, then you may need to seek professional help.

Set a Timer: This may seem like too simple of a step to take, but it will work if you are consistent with it. If you are one who has a problem keeping track of time when you are online, then setting a time when you log on will solve this problem. The trick is that you make yourself log off when the timer goes off. If you can master this step, then you will be well on your way to breaking your internet addiction.

Set Rules: While it may seem juvenile to set rules for your computer use, it is a necessary step if you want to overcome internet addiction – especially if your job or housework is suffering due to the time you spend on the internet. When you set rules for yourself, make them conditional. One rule, for example, is that you can only get online after the kids have been fed, bathed and put to bed. However, always set a timer once you do log on.

Find Another Activity to Occupy your Time: Sometimes just being in the same house as the computer is too much of a temptation. This is when it is necessary to find another activity to do that will take you out of the house and take your mind off the internet. For instance, you can join a bowling league, start running or take kick-boxing classes. The point is that you do something that requires you to spend less time online.

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Destressing

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Everyone’s life gets crazy. When you just can’t think straight anymore, use these four steps to staying sane.

Time. Take time to breathe. Every day, you should have ten to fifteen minutes of time to yourself to collect yourself and refresh. Their should be no ifs or buts about it—without it, you won’t stay sane at all. If Baby goes down for a nap, first take 10 minutes to yourself before rushing off to clean. If you’re a planner who schedules your day to the last half-hour, leave at least one half-hour slot open. This will give you more leeway in case you run behind, and allow you to feel less rushed and feel able to take those ten minutes you need.

Place. It is important to have a safe place you can run to that energizes you. If you have a garden, go walk around in it. If you really love your porch, sit on the swing. If incomplete projects bother you, try to create one space where everything is done—even if its just the wall-papered powder room downstairs. If messes bother you, clean one corner of a room and sit with your back to the rest of the mess.

Action. Once you are in a place that calms and energizes you (or at least doesn’t make you more anxious), do something you enjoy. Pick up your favorite book and read your favorite part, or do a little crocheting. If you still need calming, put in a good cd, close your eyes and listen to it. Lay on the floor and relax. Meditate or pray. Do whatever will relax you and release the tension that has built up over the day.

Be Thankful. Focus on what you have to be grateful for—a nice neighborhood, a good family, a job at all. Try pulling out old pictures and remembering good times you’ve have and be thankful for them. Remember the people in your life who support you.

These simple ways to distress might just be enough to help you keep your head in your crazy day.

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